11 Books That’ll Help You Survive (and Thrive) in Your Twenties

Need some new books to read? These 11 books for women in their twenties are just what you need! Filled with laughs and all the feels, these books will get you through this crazy time!
Books for women in their 20s

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Being in your twenties is such a wild ride – one minute you feel like you’ve got it all together, and the next, you’re wondering how you’re supposed to figure everything out. 

It’s a time of figuring out who you are, what you want, and how to be okay with not having all the answers. 

I’ve definitely had my fair share of those “what am I doing?” moments, and honestly, these books have been like little beacons of light for me. 

They’ve given me advice, comfort, and a sense of belonging when everything felt confusing. 

If you’re in the same boat, these reads will help you feel seen and maybe even give you the encouragement you need to keep going. 

I’m so excited to share these with you – they’ve been lifesavers in my twenties, and I hope they’ll be the same for you!

1. A Lonely Girl Is A Dangerous Thing by Jessie Tu

A lonely girl is a Dangerous Thing scaled

Jena’s life as a former violin prodigy is messy, full of impulsive choices, complicated relationships, and endless self-discovery. 

This book speaks to the confusion and highs of being young, trying to figure out what comes next, and what it means to truly live.

It’s raw, relatable, and perfect if you’re in that phase of questioning everything.

2. Little Women by Louisa May Alcott

Little Women

This classic is a must-read for any twenty-something! 

The March sisters teach us about the balance of dreams and responsibilities, love and loss, and the bonds that hold us together. 

Even though it’s set in a different time, their struggles still feel so relevant today.

3. Emergency Contact by Mary H. K. Choi

Emergency Contact

This one’s for anyone who’s ever struggled with feeling a bit “out of place” and the weirdness of new beginnings. 

Penny and Sam form a connection through texts, and their awkward but sweet journey through college and self-discovery is super relatable for anyone navigating life’s transition phases.

4. Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton

Everything I Know About Love

This memoir is hilarious, heartwarming, and so, so honest about the messy parts of life – friendships, relationships, and growing up. 

It’s perfect if you’re figuring out how to embrace the awkward moments and growing pains that come with adulthood.

5. Happy Hour by Marlowe Granados

Happy Hour

If you’ve ever dreamt of having a wild, carefree summer full of adventure (and maybe a bit of chaos), this one is for you. 

It’s all about youthful ambition, the pursuit of pleasure, and making the best of what you’ve got. 

Isa’s voice is bold and totally unforgettable.

6. The Idiot by Elif Batuman

The Idiot

If you love a quirky coming-of-age story, this one is full of wit and wonder. 

Selin’s journey through the confusion of first love, self-discovery, and college life is perfect for anyone who’s ever felt like they’re just figuring it out as they go.

7. My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh

My Year of Rest and Relaxation

For those days when life feels overwhelming, this darkly funny novel is about escaping it all, even if it’s through some questionable choices. 

It’s not for everyone, but it’s a great read if you’re feeling like you just need to hit pause and rethink everything.

8. Super Attractor by Gabby Bernstein

Super Attractor

This is for anyone looking to reconnect with their true self and manifest more joy and abundance.

Gabby’s spiritual wisdom helps you realize that life can flow with more ease and less stress. 

It’s like a guide to living a life that feels in sync with who you are.

9. Like She Owns the Place by Cara Alwill

Like she owns the place

If you’re looking to boost your confidence and embrace your power, this book is a game-changer. 

It’s all about showing up as your most authentic self, letting go of insecurities, and owning your place in this world. 

It’s empowering and truly uplifting.

10. Today Will Be Different by Maria Semple

Today Will Be Different

Eleanor is hilarious in her messy, chaotic, and very relatable journey of trying to make today better than yesterday.

It’s a great pick for anyone who’s ever tried to juggle life’s little (and big) disasters while trying to stay true to themselves.

11. Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo

Everything is Figureoutable

This one’s perfect if you’re ready to take action and believe that no problem is too big to solve. 

Whether you’re trying to start something new or find your way through a challenge, Marie’s actionable advice will inspire you to take bold steps toward your goals.


If any of these caught your eye, or if you’ve got your own favorites, I’d love to hear from you! 

Leave a comment below and share your thoughts – let’s keep the conversation going! 

And don’t forget to check out the related posts for more book recommendations. Happy reading. 

Preye

Hi! I'm Preye ("pre" as in "prepare" and "ye" as in "Kanye"), and I am a lifelong book lover who enjoys talking about books and sharing bits and pieces of all the fascinating things I come across. I love books so much that I decided to become a developmental editor, and right now, I work with authors to help them tell their stories better. On this blog, I share everything from book recommendations to book reviews and writing tips, so feel free to stop by anytime you like!

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