15 Self Help Books for Children That Actually Make a Difference

If I could go back in time for one thing, it would be to give my younger self more self-help books.

I feel like people really understand the power of stories and of nonfiction books.

As someone who grew up mainly reading fiction and only started nonfiction later, I can tell you it really can make a difference in your life.

Making my way through a stack of nonfiction books truly changed my life for the better.

Luckily, there are a lot of great self-help nonfiction books for children too, and if you want your child to be a reader, now is as good a time as any to start.

I think this is so important because many of these books deal with crucial topics, from respecting oneself and others to building confidence, and it’s very important to nurture this in your child at this particular stage.

The Smart Girl’s Guide To Growing Up by Anita Ganeri

This book is like a big sister sitting down with your child for a chat about growing up.

It gently answers all the awkward questions about bodies, boys, and feelings that kids might feel too shy to ask.

Anita Ganeri makes sure young girls know that it’s totally okay to be curious and that growing up doesn’t have to be scary.

Parents, this book is a wonderful gift.

It will help girls feel confident and calm about all the changes coming their way.

And it does it in such a kind and reassuring way. Every girl deserves a guide like this.

See Us Bloom: Poems on Compassion, Acceptance, and Bravery by Kyunghee Kim

The poems inside this book are simple, but they sparkle with big feelings about kindness, bravery, and loving yourself.

Every page feels like it’s cheering kids on as they grow into their true selves.

It’s perfect for parents to get their kids because it helps little hearts feel seen and loved.

The beautiful artwork adds even more warmth, so it will be a treasure for any child’s bookshelf.

Reading these poems together would make such a sweet bedtime tradition.

Personal Space Camp by Julia Cook

Louis is hilarious and lovable as he learns what personal space really means.

This book takes a tricky idea – respecting other people’s space – and makes it fun and easy for kids to understand.

Through Louis’ silly adventures, kids learn about boundaries without feeling lectured.

It’s written with so much heart and humor that even grown-ups will laugh.

Parents, if your child struggles with keeping their hands to themselves or just needs a little help understanding space, this is a must-have.

It turns an important lesson into a story your child will actually want to hear again and again.

A Better Day by Alex George

Dr. Alex George talks to kids about mental health like it’s the most normal thing in the world and that’s exactly how it should be.

This book is full of bright hope and real tools kids can use to feel better on tough days.

It’s like a friendly guide that reminds them they are never alone.

Parents, if you want your child to grow up strong on the inside as well as the outside, this is the perfect gift.

It helps kids talk about feelings and problems early and it makes mental health something positive and empowering.

My Feelings and Me: A Child’s Guide to Understanding Emotions by Poppy O’Neil

This book is a little emotional toolbox for kids.

It shows them that feelings – even the messy, big ones – are normal and that they can learn ways to manage them.

Through fun activities and a cheerful character named Pop, kids can figure out what’s going on inside and how to handle it.

Parents, this book is a total game-changer.

It’s perfect for helping kids become strong and kind to themselves.

I Am Quiet: A Story for the Introvert in All of Us by Andie Powers

Emile may be quiet, but inside he’s full of amazing adventures.

This book is so gentle and thoughtful, and it will show kids that being quiet isn’t a flaw – it’s something beautiful.

Every child who sometimes feels overlooked will see themselves as strong and wonderful.

Parents, if your little one is a dreamer or someone who doesn’t always speak up first, this book is a precious gift.

It teaches pride in who they are and shows that the loudest voices aren’t always the bravest ones.

Quiet kids shine too.

Dare to Be You by Matthew Syed

This book shouts from the rooftops that different is amazing.

Matthew Syed helps kids see that there’s no one right way to be and that’s the secret to real happiness.

With funny stories, cool facts, and examples from awesome real-life heroes, this book tells kids it’s okay to stand out, take risks, and follow their dreams.

Parents, this is such a meaningful gift for any child who ever feels different or doubts themselves.

It teaches that being yourself is the bravest, best thing you can do and it makes that lesson so much fun to learn.